Stardew Valley: A Complete Guide To Marrying Abigail
Abigail is a popular NPC in Stadew Valley who has been the center of fan conspiracy theories for years. Many believe her to be the Wizard's daughter, especially since her hair has turned purple permanently. She is close friends with Sam and Sebastian and has a rather unique story arc about learning to fight monsters.
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Abigail's Basic Info
Abigail is a girl who usually spends her time hanging out with her friends Sam and Sebastian. While she does live in the general store, she doesn't help her dad run the shop and instead focuses on her college work.
- Birthday: Fall 13
- Home Location: Pierre's General Store
- Clinic Visit: Spring 4
- Night Market Visit: Winter 15
- Occupation: College Student
Abigail's Schedule
Abigail is a character who tends to move around a lot, so finding her can be a bit hard. She doesn't spend too much time at home, and you will often end up having to search for her around the map.
Below, you can check out Abigail's schedule for every day of the year.
Spring
Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, & Saturday
When
Where
6 a.m. to 1 p.m.
Home/Pierre's General Store
~1:30 p.m. to ~4:30 p.m.
On the bridge east of her home
~4:30 p.m. onward
Home
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When
Where
6 a.m. to 10 a.m.
Home
10 a.m. to 6 p.m.
Museum
6 p.m. to 10 p.m.
Walking to and then in the graveyard
10 p.m. to 10:40 p.m.
Walking home, where she is for the rest of the night
read moreFriday
When
Where
6 a.m. to 3 p.m.
Home
3 p.m. to 9 p.m.
Stardrop Saloon
9 p.m. to 9:40 p.m.
Walking home, where she is for the rest of the night
read moreSunday
When
Where
6 a.m. to 1 p.m.
Home
1 p.m. to 4 p.m.
Walking to the Wizard's Tower
4 p.m. to 8 p.m.
Hanging out by the Wizard's Tower
8 p.m. to 10:30 p.m.
Walking home
10:30 p.m. onward
Home for the night
read moreSummer
Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, & Saturday
When
Where
6 a.m. to 11 a.m.
Home
11 a.m. to 2 p.m.
Walking to and then standing by the train platform
2 p.m. to 5:30 p.m.
Walking to and then standing by the mountain lake
5:30 p.m.
Heading home, where she is for the rest of the night
read moreWednesday
When
Where
6 a.m. to 10 a.m.
Home
10 a.m. to 6 p.m.
Walking to and then at the Museum
6 p.m. to 10 p.m.
Walking to and then hanging out in the graveyard
10 p.m.
Heading home, where she is for the rest of the night
read moreFriday
When
Where
6 a.m. to 3 p.m.
Home
3 p.m. to 9 p.m.
Heading to and at the Stardrop Saloon
9 p.m. to 9:40 p.m.
Heading home, where she is for the rest of the night
read moreSunday
When
Where
6 a.m. to 1 p.m.
Home
1 p.m. to 4 p.m.
Walking to the Wizard's Tower
4 p.m. to 8 p.m.
Standing by the Wizard's Tower
8 p.m. to 10:30 p.m.
Walking home, where she is for the rest of the night
read moreFall
Monday
When
Where
6 a.m. to 11 a.m.
Home
11 a.m. to 1 p.m.
Walking to the Beach
1 p.m. to 6 p.m.
Standing on the far-west pier at the Beach
6 p.m. to 7:30 p.m.
Walking home, where she is for the rest of the night
read moreTuesday, Thursday, & Saturday
When
Where
6 a.m. to 1 p.m.
Home
1 p.m. to 2:20 p.m.
Walking to the Bus Stop
2:20 p.m. to 5 p.m.
Standing at the Bus Stop
5 p.m. to 6:30 p.m.
Heading home, where she is for the rest of the night
read moreWednesday
When
Where
6 a.m. to 10:30 a.m.
Home
10:30 a.m. to 6 p.m.
Heading to and hanging out at the Museum
6 p.m. to 10 p.m.
Heading to and then hanging out in the graveyard
10 p.m. to 10:40 p.m.
Heading home, where she is for the rest of the night
read moreFriday
When
Where
6 a.m. to 3 p.m.
Home
3 p.m. to 3:50 p.m.
Walking to the Stardrop Saloon
3:50 p.m. to 9 p.m.
Hanging out at the Saloon
9 a.m. to 9:40 p.m.
Walking home, where she is for the rest of the night
read moreSunday
When
Where
6 a.m. to 1 p.m.
Home
1 p.m. to 4 p.m.
Walking to the Wizard's Tower
4 p.m. to 8 p.m.
Standing by the Wizard's Tower
8 p.m. to 10:30 p.m.
Walking home, where she is for the rest of the night
read moreWinter
Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, & Saturday
When
Where
6 a.m. to 10:30 a.m.
Home
10:30 a.m. to 2:30 p.m.
Walking to and at Robin's Carpenter Shop
2:30 p.m.
Heads back home, where she is for the rest of the night
read moreWednesday
When
Where
6 a.m. to 10 a.m.
Home
10 a.m. to 12 p.m.
Walking to the Museum
12 p.m. to 6 p.m.
Looking at books inside the Museum
6 p.m. to 7 p.m.
Walking to the graveyard
7 p.m. to 10 p.m.
Graveyard
10 p.m. to 10:40 p.m.
Heading home, where she is for the rest of the night
read moreFriday
When
Where
6 a.m. to 3 p.m.
Home
3 p.m. to 9 p.m.
Heading to and hanging out at the Stardrop Saloon
9 p.m. to 9:40 p.m.
Heading home, where she is for the rest of the night
read moreSunday
When
Where
6 a.m. to 1 p.m.
Home
1 p.m. to 4 p.m.
Walking to the Wizard's Tower
4 p.m. to 8 p.m.
Hanging out by the Wizard's Tower
8 p.m. to 10:30 p.m.
Walking home, where she is for the rest of the night
read moreDeviations
Rainy Day Option One
When
Where
All day
Home
Rainy Day Option Two
When
Where
6 a.m. to 2 p.m.
Home
2 p.m. to 9 p.m.
Stardrop Saloon
9 p.m.
Heading home, where she is for the rest of the night
read moreThe 6th & 16th Of Every Season
When
Where
6 a.m. to 3 p.m.
Home
3 p.m. to 8 p.m.
Heading to and then standing by the mountain lake, playing her flute
8 p.m. to 9:40 p.m.
Walking home, where she is for the rest of the night
read moreThe 11th & 25th Of Every Season
If you have
When
Where
6 a.m. to 10 a.m.
Home
10 a.m. to 12:10 p.m.
Walking to Sebastian's
12:10 p.m. to 5 p.m.
Hanging out with Sebastian in his room
5 p.m.
Heading home, where she is for the rest of the night
If you have 6+ hearts with Sebastian
When
Where
6 a.m. to 1 p.m.
Home
1 p.m. to 4:30 p.m.
Standing on the bridge east of her house
4:30 p.m.
Heading home, where she is for the rest of the night
read moreWinter 15
When
Where
6 a.m. to 10:30 a.m.
Home
10:30 a.m. to 2:30 p.m.
Walking to and standing inside Robin's Carpenter Shop
2:30 p.m.
Walking to the Beach for the Night Market
12 a.m.
Heads home, where she is for the rest of the night
read moreSpring 4
When
Where
6 a.m. to ~12 p.m.
Home, then walking to the Clinic
12:30 p.m. ~3:30 p.m.
At the Clinic
~3:30 p.m.
Walking home, where she is for the rest of the night
read moreThe Best Places To Find Abigail
As you can see, Abigail moves around quite a lot. If you are still at the beginning of the game (Spring), you can find her inside the General Store most mornings. If you are still working on the introduction quest, you can find her on Spring 4 in the clinic.
The best way to find her is by visiting the Saloon on Fridays. She will be here nearly every Friday, along with a large group of NPCs. This is a great way to speak and give gifts to multiple people at a time.
Gifting to Abigail
When it comes to Abigail's loves, she is a mixed bag, with some being hard to get, while others can be found pretty early in the game. To marry Abigail, you'll need to earn friendship Hearts with her, so be sure to talk to her every day and give her as many gifts a week as you can!
Loves & Likes
Loves (+80 points)
Likes (+45 points)
Amethyst
Banana Pudding
Blackberry Cobbler
Chocolate Cake
Pufferfish
Pumpkins
Spicy Eel
Universal Loves
Quartz
Universal Likes (Except most vegetables)
read moreNeutrals, Dislikes, & Hates
Neutral (+20 points)
Dislikes (-20 points)
Hates (-40 points)
Universal Neutrals
All Milk Types
Chanterelle
Common Mushroom
Daffodil
Dandelion
Ginger
Hazelnut
Leek
Magma Cap
Morel
Purple Mushroom
Snow Yam
Winter Root
Universal Neutrals
All Milk Types
Chanterelle
Common Mushroom
Daffodil
Dandelion
Ginger
Hazelnut
Leek
Magma Cap
Morel
Purple Mushroom
Snow Yam
Winter Root
Clay
Holly
Universal Hates
Except Sugar
read moreThe Best Gifts To Give
Abigail is a fan of both quartz and amethyst. These are two minerals that can easily be found in the mines. Quartz is quite common, so we recommend saving a few to give to Abigail.
Abigail may even tell you that she was hungry and the quartz looks delicious.
Dating Abigail
Abigail's cutscenes are a bit harder to run into since she moves around a lot. Below, you can check out all cutscenes with Abigail, as well as potential choices that you can make.
Event
How To Trigger
Choices
Two Hearts
Visit the General Store any day besides Sunday.
There are no important choices in this cutscene.
Four Hearts
Visit the mountain lake on a rainy day between 12 p.m. and 7 p.m. (excluding Winter)
"Just doing some work." (No change to friendship points)
"Enjoying the weather." (+50 friendship points)
"I could ask you the same question." (+10 friendship points)
Six Hearts
Enter the town on a clear day between 9 p.m., and 12 a.m.
"Yes, and it's exciting!" (+10 friendship points)
"Yes, but only in self-defense." (+10 friendship points)
"Yes, but it's dangerous. You should stay safe." (-100 friendship points)
"No." (No change to friendship points)
Eight Hearts
Abigail will send you a letter, and you will then need to go to her home between 8 p.m. and 10 p.m.
There are no important choices in this cutscene.
Ten Hearts
Visit the Mines between 5 p.m. and 12 a.m.
First Prompt
- "What happened?" (+20 friendship points)
- "Are you okay?" (+40 friendship points)
Second Prompt
- "You're safe with me." (+20 friendship points)
- "I get scared too." (+40 friendship points)
- "You're crying like a little baby. Stop." (-50 friendship points)
Once you reach eight Hearts with any romanceable character, Pierre will send you a letter to let you know that he's started to sell bouquets for 200g in his shop.
To date Abigail, purchase a bouquet and gift it to her! It will award you 25 friendship points and Abigail's relationship status in the Social menu will change to "girlfriend."
Marrying Abigail
Once you reach ten Hearts with any partner, Mayor Lewis will tell you about the Mermaid Pendant that you need in order to propose marriage to your partner. He doesn't tell you how to get it, but we will!
It's purchased from the Old Mariner, an NPC who appears on rainy days on the beach. He will be near the tidal pools, so you need to repair the bridge here. The Mermaid Pendant costs 5,000g and can only be purchased if you have upgraded your home at least once with Robin.
It does not naturally rain during the Winter. The only way to trigger the Old Mariner's appearance is to use a rain totem.
Your next step is to give the Mermaid Pendant to Abigail! She will happily accept your offer and the date of the wedding will be set for three days after you propose. If there happens to be an event happening in the Town Square that day, the wedding will be pushed back a day.
After the ceremony is over, you and your spouse spawn on the front steps of your home at 6 a.m. Abigail's special room will be added to the far-right side of your home, and part of the outdoors on your farm will be made into a place where Abigail can play her flute.
Marriage Schedule
After marriage, your spouse moves in with you! Abigail will spend most of her time hanging around the farm, inside or outside. She has specific schedules on Mondays and Fridays, but other than that, she may do any of the following activities.
- Watering crops
- Feeding animals
- Watering the animal bowl
- Repairing broken fences
- Giving you gifts
- Decorating the house
- In her unique outside area
- In her unique indoor room
Below, you can check out Abigail's schedule for Monday and Friday.
Monday
When
Where
6:00 a.m.
At the farmhouse's kitchen
8:30 a.m.
Goes to Pierre's General Store and stands near Pierre
1:00 p.m.
Visits the graveyard and stands in front of Mona's grave
5:00 p.m.
Goes to the Stardrop Saloon
5:40 p.m.
Plays the Journey of the Prairie King
8:30 p.m.
Returns home
10:00 p.m.
Goes to sleep
read moreFriday
When
Where
8:30 a.m.
Leaves the farmhouse to go to Pierre's General Store and stands in the kitchen
11:00 a.m.
Goes to the mountain
11:40 a.m.
Stands on the west side of the mountain's lake
3:00 p.m.
Goes to the Stardrop Saloon and sits in the arcade
8:30 p.m.
Returns home
10:00 p.m.
Goes to sleep
read moreAbigail's Fourteen Hearts Cutscene
Every one of the marriage candidates has a 14-heart event that you can only reach after they're your husband or wife. After reaching 14 hearts with Abigail, enter the Backwoods between 6:10 a.m. and 5 p.m. (the L-shaped area that links your farm to the Mountain).
Maintaining Marriage Or Choosing Divorce
Lastly, let's take a look at maintaining your marriage. This is rather simple; just continue to talk with Abigail. After interacting with her a few times in a row, the two of you will kiss. You won't need to give her as many gifts, but she will still gladly accept them.
If Abigail is no longer the one for you, you can file for a divorce. This can be done at Mayor Lewis' house; check out our complete guide to getting a divorce for more information. If you don't want Abigail to harbor any negative feelings towards you, her memory can be wiped with a shrine that unlocks once helping out the Wizard with a quest.
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