Fae Farm: Complete Guide To Romance

Farming sims are renowned for having a few staple features, with the option to date and get married a big one that Fae Farm delivers on quite well. With six singles living in Azoria (after some time) who are more than ready to mingle, it’s up to you who winds up winning your farmer’s heart.

Fae Farm: Beginner's Tips

Here are a few pro-tips we wish we knew before washing up in Azoria and diving into Fae Farm.

You’ll end up doing quite a lot of flirting and dating during your time in Azoria, but who will you end up with in the end? In this guide, we’re giving you everything you need to know about all six romance options in Fae Farm.

Updated on June 28, 2024: With the Skies of Azoria DLC adding three new romance options to the game, we're back to update our Fae Farm marriage guide to help you sway the Skyvale singles. We've also discovered how to get divorced in Fae Farm, though it doesn't always work the first time you try.

Complete Marriage Guide: An Overview Of Romance In Fae Farm

In Fae Farm, although you don't have to go on dates or get married if you'd rather skip that aspect of a farming sim and focus more on the assorted skills or quests in the game, you've got the choice between several charming romance options in Fae Farm if you do decide to take a life partner! At time of publish, there are six base game marriage candidates in Fae Farm, and another three were addded in the Skies of Azoria DLC in June 2024.

Like in real life, the more you interact with your beloved, the closer you two become. If you have your sights set on someone, speak to them every day to gain the most affection the quickest way possible. Each day, you'll have the opportunity to give gifts to the single of your dreams. The item they want changes every day from a pool of things they like, and while they'll typically ask for the same list of things, the specific daily item is likely to be different.

As such, you'll only have that day to get them that item - the requested gift will be different the following day.

Though you can only give them these specific gifts, and only when requested, you'll be able to accept love quests from potential partners to further your relationship a bit more for the day. They'll often request specific meals, seasonal ingredients, mining resources, or occasionally things outside these categories. You'll need to speak to them to accept the quest, speak to them again to give them the item(s), and speak to them a third time to complete the quest.

When growing closer to the romance candidates, you'll see your farmer cycle through a few different, progressively more serious relationship statuses with the romance candidates while dating in Fae Farm. You'll watch the relationship progress from:

Strangers > Flirting > Interested > Dating > Getting Serious > Spouse

You'll notice in the Romance tab that romance candidates progress separately from all the platonic friends you're making around Azoria. All romance candidates gain affection instead of friendship when you speak to them. You can still build the relationship each day, but just beware that there's no platonic option for the romance candidates - you're either actively dating, or they become "Old Flames" once you marry someone else.

Go On Dates With Everyone

On the bright side, it seems nobody cares that you're dating around - the romance candidates in Fae Farm never seem to mind, even if they see you with someone else! This means you can really socialize and see who you like best before settling down without fear of repercussion.

After speaking to a romance candidate a few times and seeing your relationship status change, you'll receive a letter in the mail asking you on a date. To accept, simply find the sender of the letter in town and select "Go On Date" from the menu. When you do, you'll be treated to an adorable visual novel-style cutscene of your farmer and that romance candidate out and about together in one of a few spots around town.

Your date will tell you stories and facts about themselves to let you get to know them better, and you'll often leave the date feeling noticeably closer to that romance candidate. There's one of these scenes for every level of your relationship with each marriage candidate in Fae Farm, so feel free to explore!

How To Get Married

Once you have your heart set on someone, marriage in Fae Farm is fairly straightforward, although less involved than in other farming sims like it.

First, you'll need to progress to the "Getting Serious" rank, and have gone on the "Last Date" with your special someone. After both requirements have been fulfilled, you'll soon begin to notice the "Propose Marriage" option when speaking to them out and about in town. As soon as you select this option, the game warns you that marriage is serious, and you'll need to confirm your decision a final time before your partner accepts the proposal in an adorable little dialogue.

In order to get a marriage license, you'll need to give Mayor Merritt 10,000 Florins. Save up if you don't already have it on hand, and plan accordingly when you hand it in - your wedding will be the day after you pay the Mayor for the license. The next morning, you'll choose your wedding attire from a list of options. The town congregates in a short scene at Town Hall, and Mayor Merritt pronounces you married.

After this, your partner moves into your house and will spend their time around the farm, now with Spouse as their social title when you speak to them. All other romance candidates will be listed as "Old Flames" from here out, and you can no longer go on dates with the other romance candidates.

There's an occasional bug where significant others go immediately to being your spouse before any wedding prep is complete, so just be mindful when proposing.

Can You Get Divorced In Fae Farm?

While there's no technical option to divorce in Fae Farm, you can clear a marriage instead by choosing to wipe your spouse's memory of the relationship. This can be done with any relationship you'd like to revert to the Stranger status, regardless of if you're married. It's essentially an all-encompassing breakup tool.

To do this, go into the Relationships tab of the menu, the top right option with a Polaroid. Find the person whose relationship you'd like to wipe, and check your console's specific options in the bottom right corner of the screen to see which button exactly resets a relationship. The game warns you before you confirm your choice, and the relationship immediately resets to "Strangers" again.

This relationship wipe can be done with both romantic partners and townsfolk you're on a friendly basis with as well.

It doesn't always seem to work right, but when it does, you'll clear the title of Spouse, that character returns to the Stranger status, and your old flings regain their former status from before you were married.

Fae Farm: FAQ Guide

Maybe your spouse, if you choose to have one, can help you find the Wisp Mother's freaking portal...

All Marriage Candidates, Locations, And The Gifts They Enjoy

In the base game, you'll have six marriage candidates in Azoria. Some of them don't arrive until after you've finished the Saltwater Mines questline and cleared the whirlpools from the harbor to allow ships to dock once again. Additionally, the Skies of Azoria DLC added three new romance options in the DLC realm of Skyvale, but they're only available if you have the DLC.

The majority of the Azorian romance options head over to the Inn early in the morning and late at night, hanging out in the center and left two rooms, so it's an easy way to sweep through and do a little flirting and gifting all in one convenient spot.

Fae Farm Marriage Options: Base Game

Name

Unlocks

Locations

Possible Gifts

Argyle

Immediately on beginning the game

On the beach near Stay-a-While Bay

Along the river southeast of your house

Central Town

• Bug Juice
• Blob Globs
• Common Toad
• Flutter Dust
• Frog Sweat
• Rainbow Frog
• Shell Bits

Jack

Near the bridge by Alaric's house

Picnicking south of the pedestal for the Spooky Woods

• Brown Snail
• Beech Lumber
• Chopped Fruit
• Fruit Pies
• Fruit Salad
• Flutterwood Lumber
• Sporewood Lumber

Galan

After you've cleared the Whirlpools

Outside of Saltwater Mines

By the river between your Homestead and Central Market, to the right of the bridge

• Azure Spud
• Candy Corn
• Chili Pepper
• Grilled Mushroom
• Flame Heart
• Frost Beet
• Magic Bean

Nhamashal

West Town near the West Town pedestal

Painting near the bridge to the Spooky Woods in Verdant Valley

• Copper Ingot
• Polished Aquamarine
• Polished Amethyst
• Polished Emerald
• Polished Peridot
• Polished Sapphire
• Polished Topaz

Pepper

Wandering through Azoria

Central Market

The beach by Nessa's house

• Berry Jam
• Fish Jerky
• Mushroom Jerky
• Pickled Greens
• Pickled Roots
• Pickled Shellfish
• Pickled Veggies

Pyria

Painting between the bridges in Verdant Valley near the berry bushes and tea leaves

By the waterfall just south of the stairs to the Homestead

• Berry Tea
• Black Hyacinth
• Black Lily
• Black Trillium
• Blossom Brew
• Green Tea
• Honey Tea
• Milk Tea

The Skies of Azoria marriage candidates may move around as you progress through the content added in the DLC before all ending up back in Windhaven once you're finished. We've accounted for this in the table below. Phoebe stays in place in Windhaven, but Gryff and Kestrel are part of the storyline and move islands accordingly.

Fae Farm Marriage Options: Skies Of Azoria DLC

Name

Locations

Gifts

Gryff

Chapter 1: Star Vault entrance south of the pedestal

Chapter 2: Star Vault entrance south of Gusto's perch

Chapter 3: Star Vault entrance south of the pedestal

Afterward: Windhaven Beanstalk

• Ammonite
• Cheese
• Cornbread
• Milk
• Jumbleberry Pie

Kestrel

Chapter 1: Windhaven Beanstalk

Chapter 2: Starlight Isles Beanstalk

Chapter 3: Howling Heights Beanstalk

Afterward: Windhaven Beanstalk

• Apple
• Candy Corn
• Coral
• Great Gusto's Goulash
• Mushroom Jerky

Phoebe

The right side of the Windhaven Marketplace

• Beeswax
• Coral
• Great Gusto's Goulash
• Silk
• Silk Threads
• Wool Fabric

You can flirt with the Skies of Azoria characters throughout the DLC, but you'll just need to be mindful of their locations. Your map shows you where they currently are.

How Long Does It Take To Beat Fae Farm?

If you're wondering how long it'll take you to complete Fae Farm and how many chapters there are, we've got it all covered right here.